Jealous no more hypnosis has cured you!
Posted by Admin on January 30th, 2009
By Clint Jhonson
Recent statistics have shown more and more relationships to be affected by one of the partners being excessively jealous. The situation is even worse in couples who are both jealous. Imagination or not, jalousi is a serious problem, one that should not be treated lightly. There are many solutions out there, including hypnose and hypnotherapy.
Being jealous can come from having a rich imagination. You may even spend important amounts of time building up all sorts of scenarios in your mind, thinking that you are being cheated on. Jalousi is sometimes normal but it can also reach a point where it becomes unreasonable. The moment you start worrying constantly about your spouse working too much, that is the moment when you might be more than jealous. Obsession is never a good thing and it can even destroy a marriage.
There is a thin line between regular jalousi and obsession. Couples are advised to seek out counseling to improve their communication, thus reducing the possibility of jealousy to appear. Hypnose is also a good idea, allowing one to understand the reasons behind such behaviors and discover ways to improve ones relationship. The therapist can help you feel the opposite of helpless, opening all communication lines with your wife/husband.
Dont think if you are going to be the first person that turns to hypnose in order to be cured of jalousi. There are hundreds of people out there who have considered the same methods. They discovered hypnosis to be a healthy method to cope with feelings of jealousy. It is quite wonderful to be able to trust your partner, without becoming anxious at the very thought that he or she might be late. The therapist knows the best ways to get to the root cause of your jealousy and return you to a state of confidence, of complete trust.
One should never be afraid to face those feelings of jalousi. On the contrary, hypnosis is a very good idea as it can help the person deal with those feelings. Through hypnose, you choose willingly to resolve your jealousy-related problems in a healthy manner. The therapist can teach you all about visualization techniques but also guide you through your emotions. Reaching your subconscious, the hypnotherapist can eliminate negative thoughts and those of distrust.
Hypnose is today recommended as an alternative treatment for excessive jealousy. It is highly efficient, building the confidence and self-esteem a jealous person lacks completely. After several sessions of hypnosis, a person is filled with positive thoughts and jealous feelings slowly disappear. One is at complete liberty to focus on things that are more important, improving the relationship with the spouse and discovering new things in life. All insecurities are left behind and one no longer finds reasons to be jealous.
Jealousy might have made you feel uncertain about your partner. There may have been times in your life when you felt like you had no choice but to keep track of everything your spouse does. Hypnosis is not just a way to relax and let all those feelings out, but to cope with strong emotions and resolve any problems. You are capable of overcoming jealousy and protect your relationship, especially if you try hypnosis!
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Dealing With Your OCD And Fearful Thoughts In The Business World
Posted by Admin on January 30th, 2009
By Stanley Popovich
It can be tough for business people with OCD to have to experience obsessive thoughts that are intrusive, scary, and difficult to manage. As a result, here is a short list of techniques that a person can use to help manage their obsessive and fearful thoughts.
The first thing a person must do is not to dwell or focus on the fear provoking thought when it comes. The more a person tries to reason out the thought or focus on the fear behind the thought, the stronger the thought becomes. The next time you encounter an obsessive thought, get into the practice of not dwelling on it.
From my interviews with various professionals, I’ve learned that usually it is the fear behind the thoughts that gets us worked up. Ignore the fear behind these obsessive thoughts, regardless how the strong the fear may be. If you ignore the fear behind these thoughts, then the thoughts become easier to manage.
A person should visualize a red stop sign in their mind when they encounter a fear provoking thought. When the negative thought comes, a person should think of a red stop sign that serves as a reminder to stop focusing on that thought and to think of something else. A person can then try to think of something positive to replace the negative thought.
Sometimes, a person may encounter a lot of scary thoughts coming at them all at once. Instead of getting upset, remember that these thoughts are exaggerated and are not based on reality. Even if your fearful thoughts tell you otherwise, the fact is that there are circumstances and factors in every situation that can not be anticipated. We may be ninety-nine percent in predicting the future but all it takes is for that one percent to make the biggest difference.
Although I am a Layman and not a professional, I have interviewed many counselors and I learned that there are many ways to deal with these kinds of thoughts. There are ways to deal with your obsessive thoughts and with the proper treatment, you can live a productive life.
Stan Popovich is the author of “A Layman’s Guide to Managing Fear” an easy to read book that presents a overview of techniques that are effective in managing persistent fears and anxieties. For additional information go to: http://www.managingfear.com
How Our Thoughts Influence Our Health
Posted by Admin on May 25th, 2008
By Sarah Maria
Have you ever spend endless hours in thought, pondering an important decision and felt a consistent pain in your stomach? Do you ever notice yourself having critical thoughts and feel a corresponding tightness in your chest? When you’ve been happy, excited, or thinking positive thoughts, have you noticed how your whole body felt relaxed?
The average person has between 12,000 and 50,000 thoughts per day. And these thoughts can have profound effects on our psycho-physiology.
Thousands of years ago, the Buddha pointed out that our thoughts determine our experience of the world. He was the original cognitive therapist, explaining that our beliefs had the power to enslave us or enlighten us. The ancient Indian medical system of Ayurveda also teaches that our biography helps create our biology.
Whatever we think, feel, and experience, helps to create our reality.
These ancient teachings have been continually confirmed through western medical science. Dr. Candace Pert, an internationally recognized psychopharmacologist and author of Molecules of Emotion, explains “The nueropeptides and receptors, the biochemicals of emotion, are the messengers carrying information to link the major systems of the body into one unit that we can call the body-mind. We can no longer think of the emotions as having less validity than the physical, material substance, but instead must see them as cellular signals that are involved in the process of translating information into physical reality, literally transforming mind into matter.”
Our thoughts and emotions can profoundly impact our health. Dr. Pert further writes “Because the molecules of emotion are involved in the process of a virus entering a cell, it seems logical to assume that the state of our emotions will affect whether or not we succumb to viral infections.” She goes on to explain that “. . . the chronic suppression of emotions results in a massive disturbance of the psychosomatic network.” Therefore, “The key is to express it and then let it go, so that it doesn’t fester or build, or escalate out of control.”
An amazing pictorial representation of how our thoughts create and influence our reality involves water — plain old water. Writer and researcher Masaru Emoto, who lives and works in Japan, decided to photograph the crystals formed when water freezes. Emoto found that crystal formation seems to reflect the words, music, or actions that water is exposed to as it freezes.
Emoto and his colleagues wrote different words on paper, and then taped them onto bottles of water. They then froze the water and observed the crystals that formed. When water was exposed to the words “thank you,” a beautiful hexagonal shape appeared.
Conversely, when the water was exposed to the words “you fool,” no crystals formed and the frozen water looked like a misshapen lump of ice.
Emoto’s photographs offer a pictorial representation for Dr. Pert’s findings. We are mostly water, and it seems not impossible that we can and do influence this water, and therefore our bodies, in either positive or negative ways. According to Emoto, “The vibration of good words has a positive effect on our world, whereas the vibration from negative words has the power to destroy.”
Sarah Maria is a body-image expert and personal empowerment coach who helps you love your body no matter how it looks.
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Wake Up Every Morning Full Of Energy
Posted by Admin on October 21st, 2006
By Hans Thorn
Imagine yourself wakening up every morning full of energy and ready for the challenges of the day. Lots of exciting things are happening and you manage them with success. You turn around the negative to the positive and with the positive you create balance and success within all areas. Would not this be wonderful?
This scenario could be yours, but the question is: Does your life look like this? Most likely most people would like to have a life like this, but the reality for many people is not as positive as the scenario above. A lot of people struggle with bad finances, bad health and bad relationships. How come?
No-one is born with a negative approach or negative thoughts of herself. However, when the years pass by, a lot of people create a negative pattern of thoughts that leads to negative feelings, which always leads to poor results. There is nothing wrong with that and it is pure naturally if you understand the law of cause and effect, where every effect has a cause and every cause has an effect.
The reason for that we think positively or negatively about ourselves and what we can accomplish is to a large extent shaped of what we have seen, experienced and heard as a child. If you have grown up surrounded by harmony, the chances that you have life balance are greater than what you would have had if you had grown up under tougher circumstances. Maybe it sounds unfair, and maybe it is, but you cannot change the past.
However, you can change what you think and feel about yourself now. What has been programmed in your past can be replaced with a new program where you get positive results, all according to the law of cause and effect.
How is this done? The first thing we need to do is to let go of the emotional connection to what causes poor results. To let go of everything that is negative and forgive those who might have done this. Not so much for their sake as for you to be able to be free from the strong bounds that creates your unwished results.
When you then feel free and released from the negative, it is time to program your brain with your dream scenario with assistance of new messages, for example:
1. I love myself
2. I am running a successful business
3. I have many excellent relationships
Read your sentences 10 times each morning and evening during three weeks and continue thereafter with new positive sentences that you want to experience. This will become you new cause and the results will be positive and totally different from your previous results.
Hans Thorn has over 20 years of experience in personal development. He has helped hundreds of clients with success in areas like economy, health and relationships. Get his Personal
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The Universal Law of Thinking: The Importance of Controlling Your Thoughts to Achieve Success
Posted by Admin on April 12th, 2006
By Nickolove Lovemore
The Law of Thinking is one of several Universal Laws which silently govern our lives. Yet it by mastering these laws and working in harmony with them that we achieve our greatest success in life.
However, with respect to the Universal Law of Thinking, are you really thinking or are you allowing someone else to do your thinking for you?
Earl Nightingale said once that if most people said what they were thinking that they would be speechless. You see many people allow their thoughts to be controlled by others - newspapers, magazines, television, radio and the like.
And, particularly during this current environment, when the economy is experiencing a downturn allowing your thinking to be controlled by those whose role seems to be to continually provide a stream of negative news this can be very dangerous indeed.
Thoughts are extremely powerful. Do not underestimate the power of thought just because it is not immediately visible. You cannot see a thought but you can see its effects.
“Mind is the master power that moulds and makes. And man is mind and ever more he takes the tool of thought and, shaping what he wills, brings forth a thousand joys, a thousand ills. He thinks in secret and it comes to pass, the environment is but his looking glass.”
James Allen, “As a Man Thinketh”
In other words, as all the world’s greatest thought leaders agree, you become what you think about and your external environment (in its broadest sense) is a direct reflection of internal environment or your thoughts.
At a fundamental level we are simply energy and, with Kirlian photography, we can even see how changing our thoughts change the energy signature that we emit or our aura. Energy therapists also have the ability to ‘read’ people’s aura’s with a high degree of accuracy. However, anyone has the ability to sharpen their acuity to sense what another person is thinking.
Scientists have proven that your thoughts travel 930,000 times faster than the speed of your voice. This is phenomenal and it underlines the importance of controlling your thinking. The thoughts you think on a regular basis will materialize and, in some cases, with alarming alacrity. No other Universal force is known to be as powerful or as fast.
Voltaire said:
“No problem can stand the assault of sustained thinking.”
However, there is a pre-requisite to this - so long as you are thinking about the solution to the problem and not just focusing on the problem itself. Too many people focus on the problem and then wonder why things don’t work out.
Many people think negative and expect positive but, of course, that isn’t going to happen. Yet often, when you challenge such individuals about changing their thinking and practicing positive thinking their immediate rebuttal is that it is too hard. Albert Einstein said that:
“The world we have created is a product of our thinking; it cannot be changed without changing our thinking.”
So if you want to change your life and resolve the problems you’re experiencing you have to change your thinking. Yes, this can be a challenge but what’s worse? Staying as you are even although you are dissatisfied and, in some cases downright miserable about your present situation, or changing your thinking to make it congruent with what you truly desire in your life?
However, remember that it took years of thinking to create the life you currently have. Change will not be instantaneous but it can be fast so long as you are persistent.
Einstein also said:
“We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.”
Yet this is exactly what many people are striving in vain to accomplish. To solve your current problems you not only have to change your thinking you also have to elevate your thinking. It follows therefore, that you must be on a continual path of self-improvement if you wish to advance in life and achieve your goals because you will not achieve your goals without encountering and vanquishing a few problems along the way.
The proper application of the Law of Thinking is critical to your success. Your thinking will shape your destiny.
“Thoughts lead on to purpose, purpose leads on to actions, actions form habits, habits decide character and character fixes our destiny.”
Tryon Edwards
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Learning How To Overcome Your Obsessive And Fearful Thoughts
Posted by Admin on February 11th, 2006
By Stanley Popovich
It can be tough for people with OCD to have to experience obsessive thoughts that are intrusive, scary, and difficult to manage. As a result, here is a short list of techniques that a person can use to help manage their obsessive and fearful thoughts.
The first thing a person must do is not to dwell or focus on the fear provoking thought when it comes. The more a person tries to reason out the thought or focus on the fear behind the thought, the stronger the thought becomes. The next time you encounter an obsessive thought, get into the practice of not dwelling on it.
From my interviews with various professionals, I’ve learned that usually it is the fear behind the thoughts that gets us worked up. Ignore the fear behind these obsessive thoughts, regardless how the strong the fear may be. If you ignore the fear behind these thoughts, then the thoughts become easier to manage.
A person should visualize a red stop sign in their mind when they encounter a fear provoking thought. When the negative thought comes, a person should think of a red stop sign that serves as a reminder to stop focusing on that thought and to think of something else. A person can then try to think of something positive to replace the negative thought.
Sometimes, a person may encounter a lot of scary thoughts coming at them all at once. Instead of getting upset, remember that these thoughts are exaggerated and are not based on reality. Even if your fearful thoughts tell you otherwise, the fact is that there are circumstances and factors in every situation that can not be anticipated. We may be ninety-nine percent in predicting the future but all it takes is for that one percent to make the biggest difference.
Although I am a Layman and not a professional, I have interviewed many counselors and I learned that there are many ways to deal with these kinds of thoughts. There are ways to deal with your obsessive thoughts and with the proper treatment, you can live a productive life.
Stan Popovich is the author of “A Layman’s Guide to Managing Fear” an easy to read book that presents a overview of techniques that are effective in managing persistent fears and anxieties. For additional information go to: http://www.managingfear.com
Thinking Thin: How Your Thoughts Can Help You Lose Weight
Posted by Admin on September 24th, 2005
By Melody Biggar
Every thought you have about your weight and health has made you the way you are today. Your career, your relationships, your health…are all a direct result of your past thinking. If you look in the mirror and think “I’m fat,” then you are sending this message directly to your subconscious and thus you will be fat. If you are constantly thinking, “I need to lose weight,” then you will constantly be in the state of needing to lose more weight.
Affirmations can help you jump-start your weight-loss goals. Affirmations are your own words or phrases of encouragement to yourself. You can use these anytime you feel low energy, negativity, the urge to overeat, or skip your workout etc.
Your affirmations or mantras must be in the present tense. Instead of saying “I will lose weight and be fit in one month,” say “I am losing more weight every day.” Always say your mantras as if they are in the present, not in the future or you will be constantly trying to get thin rather than just be thin.
Here are some positive affirmations you can give yourself during your weight loss journey. Repeat them every day.
“I am thin, healthy and beautiful.”
“I am beautiful exactly as I am.”
“I am thin and fit.”
“I am healthy and in shape.”
“I look and feel lighter everyday.”
“I enjoy being healthy.”
“I love the food that makes me thin.”
“My body is getting stronger, slimmer, and healthier every day.”
“My clothes fit perfectly on my thin new body.”
“I love my body.”
“It is easy to be healthy.”
Repeat your affirmations throughout the day. Even if it seems untrue at the time, keep repeating them. Be patient. Work on your mind. Your body will follow.
The secret of Successful People:
Do you know what the secret to every success is? Positive Thinking and Visualization. It is true that “If you can dream it, you can do it.” Ask any successful businessperson, actor or millionaire. They will tell you that this is the key to all their success.
The law of attraction is constantly in action. Whatever you think about you bring about. As long as you think you’re fat you will be fat. Think thin! Visualize yourself as the person you want to be and act as if you are that person. Write it out. Sing it. Photoshop your face on the body of a super model if you have to. But don’t stick it in a drawer. Look at it everyday. Hold that image in your mind. Your mind will tell your body to make it a reality!
Melody Biggar is author of “Natural Sexy Skinny: An organic, All-Natural Weight-Loss System.” To learn more weight-loss secrets and get your free weight-loss e-course visit http://www.naturalsexyskinny.com.
Making Money Is Purely A Mental Game. Here Is Why
Posted by Admin on May 14th, 2005
By Mercedes Oestermann van Essen
If you have been told, or worse still, firmly hold the belief that making money has to do with talent and outside circumstances, you are betting on the wrong horse. What’s more, your failure in the world of making money is almost certainly guaranteed, particularly in today’s tough environment. The pre-suppositions of talent, luck and the like are old wife’s tales and hold no truth what so ever. In fact, scientific evidence points into a very different direction.
Recent scientific studies show clear evidence that only around 20percent of our so called talents are inherited. Environmental factors, such as geopathic stress and EMR, electro magnetic radiation, may play a much larger role in your ability to make money and further success in other areas of your life too.
Quantum physics explains how particles of an observed object change with the observer. And there are the famous water experiments by Masaru Emoto that show that water molecules change with our emotions.
It is beyond the scope of this article to go into all these findings in detail, suffice it to say though that there is abundant evidence that our thoughts literally make our world. Success in life is not directly dictated by outside circumstances, as many of us believe, but your outside circumstances are attracted to you through your thinking.
In other words: You will always get what you focus on and how you focus dictates the results you are getting in your life. This simple statement is naturally true of your financial situation as well.
Successful people have always known about the number one of manifestation principles and know how to apply their mind to get what they want.
It has never been more important than today to learn and understand these principles and practice them each day to become a master at using them. This is your guarantee that will see you through an extended bear market which is likely to run for several years yet.
So, where do you start? In order to focus on a desired outcome you need to be able to notice how your mind works. The technique of witnessing your thoughts and feelings is also referred to as witnessing. When you learn to become the witness of your thoughts and actions you are beginning to expand your cognitive awareness. Expanding your cognitive awareness is the key to focusing correctly. After all you can only change something if you are aware of it. And, you need to learn when to recognise when you are not focusing correctly.
There are many techniques that can help you to learn disciplined mind focus. Mediation is a great tool, alas many of us do not have the time for extended meditation practice. The next best thing are mental energy techniques which are combined with meridian stimulation. Micro EFT is such a technique and possibly one of the easiest to use and incorporate seamlessly into your daily routine. It only takes seconds to use and, provided it is used regularly, it is incredibly powerful and effective.
If you are familiar with energy techniques, you may have already heard of EFT, Emotional Freedom Technique. Micro EFT is an adaptation of EFT and uses regular micro stimulus to create macro results, similar to homeopathy. Instead of taking drops of some essence several times a day, you use mental stimulus several times during the day to train your mind and release unwanted thought patterns. Neutralising unwanted emotions clears the mind and lets you see how you are doing things that stop you from realising your goals.
I cannot stress enough, in times when the world is changing and the old ways we took for granted have stop working, we must grow and learn new ways of adjusting to these changes in order to survive. True changes always comes from within, it is never out there. So, work on yourself and learn to direct your mind correctly and unleash the many talents you have.
Mercedes Oestermann van Essen is a human development coach, energy therapist and author. She has created the
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Women’s Thoughts About The Penis Size
Posted by Admin on January 19th, 2005
By Mark Kintan
Admit it or not, we have always been annoyed or bombarded with questions on penis size for a long time. Who or what else is there to blame? Movies and TV series like “The Sweetest Thing” and Sex and the City” all show women characters who leave their men because of one obvious reason– a small penis. Even drug company* and health and medical retail outlets are continuously introducing sexual enhancers and penis enlargement tools to help men with their penis size troubles. But naturally, men who avail or are still thinking of getting these products also wonder: does the size of the penis really matter to women?
Let’s view two points involving the penis size issue from the female position. One side, in particular, includes those who detest size queens, people who care or “pretend” to care about penis size, and those who do not believe that penis size matters. For these women, size queens only “pretend” to care about the penis size issue to feel dominant; since women feel secondary to men, some feminists take advantage of this penis issue to experience a sort of power over men. Furthermore, some women view the penis size issue as that of a male obsession because of the scientific fact that the women’s most sensitive sexual nerves are located around the vagina’s opening so there is really no need for a longer penis when the pleasure nerves are just around the opening area. Others, in the meantime, simply say that penis size isn’t a factor that affects men’s personalities.
Logically speaking, a longer penis is more capable to have an erection than a shorter one. If the penis is not capable to erect during intercourse, then dissatisfaction would definitely arise, which can lead to further complications in the sexual relationship. Another related notion is that having a longer penis usually means having a desirable girth, which means more friction and pleasure for the women during sex.
But aside from the needs of women for their partners to have larger penises, some women truly have their own opinions based on the behavior and view of men. Most also experience the necessity to believe a penis enlargement process. Even today, men consider long and large penises as trophies worth bragging by and adulating over. In such case, necessarily, someone who’s not as well-endowed as the others frequently feels insecure and inferior. Arguably, the big penis ideal has become part of male culture because it adds up to their masculinity. There are many men, both young and old, who often think that they lose sense of masculinity if their penises don’t measure above the average or as expected by their peers and sexual partners.
Since of the increasing number of people who think that having a larger penis is worth all the effort, several companies have been coming up with different ways on however to help those who are not so gifted down there. For instance, penis enlargement tools are rampant in the market today, including penis pumps. Some men even undergo surgical procedures such as phalloplasty, a male organ enlargement surgery, just so that the size of their penis get the approval of many, including their women.
But for those who are not yet positive to go all out and take drastic procedures for the penis enlargement desires, supplements that are made of natural ingredients are also available. For many men and women, going for the alternative option of supplements is deemed safer and less risky, and thus, is much more appealing.
Most women recommend those with safe and herbal contents such as VigRX Plus, which is a supplement that improves the sexual performance of men. According to Dr. Michael Carter, male enhancement products like VigRX Plus often contain natural ingredients such as herbs from China, South America, and Europe. These herbs usually include the Hawthorn Berry, a strong antioxidant that smooths out blood circulation, the Catuaba Bark Extract, which helps relieve stress and stimulates the nervous system, and the Asian Red Ginseng, which helps cure erectile dysfunction.
Apart from the fact that they reinforce the impression that bigger is better and that they are safe, supplements like VigRX Plus are medically proven for their natural methods of enhancing penis size, increasing libido, and improving erection. Once a patient encounters any problem such as erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation, he may take these supplements, aside from consulting with the doctor, so that he does not have to deal with further complications in his reproductive system. Still medical professionals and doctors take these supplements for their own penis size problems. Luke Adams, for one, discovered the positive effects of VigRX after using it for two weeks; according to him, his penis has become bigger and stronger every time it erects since he took the supplements.
Much have been said about women’s thoughts about size, but what ultimately matters most is what the method can do for the body and how it can change the individual’s sex life. So, whether men believe that women care about penis size or not, they still have to take care of their body and at the same time, make themselves happy and satisfied.
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